Yes I did. It included a description on your supposed technique, which would most likely have been wrong, and caused you trouble, possibly ruined body panels. A simple 'Thank You' on your part would have sufficed.
On your main concern: Save the stainless wire for stainless work, and get a spool of regular wire for sheetmetal etc. work. You generally should not mate stainless with mild steel based stuff, it creates a 'galvanic pair' and results in accelerated corrosion of the weaker metal. Whether the mild steel rusts through right by the seam after 20 years or 200 years, is too hard to say...
Same thing is more obvious when you look at the corrosion under the nuts of the transmission or engine case. Aluminum/steel contact makes the aluminum erode over time.
On gas flow then, I can't recommend a cfm value, but try to err on the 'too much' side, it won't hurt. Too little will give you porous, dirty, bubbly welds that won't hold, or melt the metals together properly. Higher gas flow also helps with cooling the surrounding metal area. Some better welders have an adjustment for how long the gas keeps flowing after you take your finger off the trigger. Don't move the nozzle away from the weld immediately, let the gas do it's job.
You're welcome.
Jan